Fruit of the Spirit – Gentleness
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Video Questions
- How did gentleness show up in the story from the video?
- How was this gentleness the result of being connected to the Spirit?
Gentleness is strength that is under control and which is used for the benefit of others.
Scripture
Read Mark 10.13-16:
13 People were bringing little children to Jesus for him to place his hands on them, but the disciples rebuked them. 14 When Jesus saw this, he was indignant. He said to them, “Let the little children come to me, and do not hinder them, for the kingdom of God belongs to such as these. 15 Truly I tell you, anyone who will not receive the kingdom of God like a little child will never enter it.” 16 And he took the children in his arms, placed his hands on them and blessed them.
- How does the fact that Jesus includes a young child in the midst of the disciples demonstrate his gentleness?
- How do the disciples demonstrate the opposite of gentleness in this passage?
General Questions
- How has God shown gentleness toward you?
- How can consistently learning about and worshiping God help us grow to become more and more able to use our strength under control?
- Why are we so tempted to stop being gentle with one another within Christian community?
- How can we spur one another on toward gentleness instead?
- In our lives in the real world – where we work, live, and play – what kind of impact can gentleness have on others, especially those who do not yet know Jesus?
- How can we share the good news of Jesus and his kingdom with more gentleness? Why might this be important?
Challenge
This week, when you are tempted to get angry at someone, even if they deserve it, think of how to be gentle instead. If there is a need for correction, that’s fine; do it gently! Strength under control. Remember, God can do with us sinful people whatever he wants…but he chooses to love us instead!
Prayer
Father, we are so tempted to use all of our energy, time, money, and strength on ourselves. We want our ways, right away. Teach us how to be gentle instead, showing preference for the other above ourselves. Remind us of how you, the Triune God, have shown us gentleness over and over and over again. Help us learn to use what you have gifted us with: grace and meekness. In Jesus’ name, Amen.