The Small Things Are Really Big Things
The Small Things Are Really Big Things
- Greg Waybright
- James 5:7-11
- Examining Our Ways
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The Small Things Are Really Big Things - Week 10
I have often mentioned how much I enjoy the Africa Bible Commentary. There is no other commentary that I find to be as helpful in terms of applying the Bible to our world. In it, Dr. Solomon Andria of Malagasy was assigned to comment on this week's text, James 5:7–11. His concise words are clear and instructive:
I have often mentioned how much I enjoy the Africa Bible Commentary. There is no other commentary that I find to be as helpful in terms of applying the Bible to our world. In it, Dr. Solomon Andria of Malagasy was assigned to comment on this week's text, James 5:7–11. His concise words are clear and instructive:
Endurance, patience, and hope are three important themes in James. They blend well with James' central theme of putting the Word into practice. Faith should flow forth into concrete action. Society judges Christians not on the faith they express but on the way they live... Putting the word into practice requires patience and endurance because we face many temptations, tests, obstacles, and challenges. So, we must imitate farmers (5:7). After having worked hard to get the crop into the soil, farmers wait patiently for the harvest, which will come at the right time, neither too early nor too late...
Impatience will show itself in grumbling, and James warns us about this (5:9). Grumbling is a sign of disorder and misunderstanding that comes out in a failure to control the tongue (cf. 3:1–10). The Lord will express his displeasure at this when he returns.
While we wait for that great day when God will complete his work, our patience will be tried by suffering, just as the patience of the prophets was (5:10). They spoke out in the name of the Lord despite great opposition. They did not give up and fail in their mission because hope was alive in their hearts. They believed that the day of the Lord was near. We admire people like that.
Another person, not a prophet, who suffered patiently was Job (5:10). He feared God but still endured great suffering. So, all people who love God may have to face suffering, but by the end of it they will know God better and have a far deeper understanding of his love and mercy.
Take time to meditate on James 5:7–11 today. Ask how this Word from God should affect your inner being and flow out into your speech. I pray that, through doing so, you too will "know God better and have a far deeper understanding of his love and mercy."
To His Glory,
Dr. Greg Waybright
Senior Pastor
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The Small Things Are Really Big Things - Week 10 - Study Notes
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The small things are Really Big Things
James 5:7-11
This week's Bible passage brings us to a subject I've briefly mentioned several times in my series in James, i.e., why does Pastor James so often seem to make a big deal out of what many people consider to be small things. Why does he make so much of things like listening and speaking, like welcoming both poor and rich, like being open to reason, and like remembering God in each decision you make? In this week's text, Pastor James speaks about being patient and not grumbling. Many of us might be excused if we think, "God is too big to care about such things. God surely cares more about things like murder and violence and abusiveness." I'm quite sure James would say, "God does care about those things and will judge them. But, he does not consider as small those things you consider small."
One of the all-pervasive lessons of the book of James is that the big spiritual direction-setters in our lives
don't always happen at those moments that most human being think are the big spotlight moments. Let me remind you of how we who follow Jesus see the world: We believe that a billion years from now, we still will be. And, James teaches that the things that will determine who you are in the end – who you will be billions of years from now – will be the seemingly small choices you make day by day and moment by moment. So, one of the most important areas, according to James is the kind of choice we make every day, i.e., to be patient and wait for God or to grow impatient. That brings us to James 5:7-11.
James says that the Judge over all judges, God himself, is standing right by us ready to judge our impatient hearts and grumbling mouths. "Whew!" you may say. "Why would a big God care about such things?" But, I hope Pastor James' words will help you understand why this is so important to the Lord.
And that's what I want to talk about today. James 5:7-11 is often considered to be less weighty in its teaching than other parts of James' letter. In some ways, I have found it to be among the most important passages in James' letter. James tells us in 5:7-11 why one of the surest signs of genuine faith is the ability to wait upon God patiently, a patience that comes out inevitably in the way we speak.
#1. What "Small Things" Does God's Word Warn Us About?
Be patient, then, brothers and sisters, until the Lord's coming... Don't grumble (5:7a, 9a).
I've asked many of you this week, "Do you ever pray that God will help you to be patient?" Several of you quickly answered, "I've learned not to!" That response shows that we understand that it takes trials to build the strength that makes patience possible. I spoke about this in my sermon from James 1:2-4. Because of that, there is a sense in which praying for patience is also asking for trials. And few of us want those! In ch. 1, James pointed out clearly that trials born with patience will make us strong. Now, in ch. 5, he makes a related but slightly different point. He says that patience leads to a way of life that has a beneficial impact on our souls and in the world. Or, to put it more accurately – James says that patience's opposite, impatience, leads to a destructive and miserable way of life – both for us and for those around us.
The heartbeat of these verses is a call to patience. James used several words for patience in these 5 verses, words that are translated in various ways: "steadfastness", "endurance", "standing firm", "established hearts", "perseverance"... So, let's be clear: Patience is important to God. When you are patient, you show you believe that God is present and that he is at work – even if he is doing something you cannot understand. Therefore, patience is one of the surest evidences that your faith truly is in God. On then other hand, impatience is clear evidence that you do not trust God.
This comes out in many ways: You may not trust God's plan and want to take over for him. Or, you may not trust God's timing and want things to happen faster! The point is that when you see impatience growing in your inner being, you can be quite sure that you are heading down a path that will takes you away from God. You walk with God by faith. But when you don't really believe God, you can see it by your impatience – by your unwillingness to wait on him.
Now – how do you know when impatience is becoming a spiritual problem? James says that you can detect that faithless impatience is becoming a cancer in your soul when you see it coming out through your mouth in the form of grumbling. The whole of Scripture tells us that our mouths have the potential of being a conduit of God's salvation through Jesus, of encouragement and of relational healing. But, the mouth can be like a sewage pipe carrying the junk that is happening in our souls out into the world and doing nothing but damage. A mouth that complains and grumbles is one of the surest signs of a "my life for me" life.
I don't think that by "grumbling" the Bible is talking about speaking honestly about the trials we are going through. That's an important part of any honest relationship. When we share the trials we have with others, then we can help one another. We can pray for one another with specificity. We can bear one anothers' burdens. Honest sharing is an important part of a marriage, of a family and of a church.
James is referring to what we've all experienced – in fact, I imagine we've all engaged in, i.e., a spirit of constant complaining. It's sprit that always seeks pity – not prayer. The complainer always wants you to know how busy he is, how troubling his family is, how irritating that song at church was... I could go on and on with this. I'm quite sure you know what James is referring to.
And, with one phrase in v.9, James gets at a particularly dangerous part of grumbling for our lives. When impatience makes its way into our words, we often lash out most fiercely at those closest to us. James wrote, "Don't grumble against one another, brothers and sisters." My wife, Chris, has taught me a lot about this part of grumbling. She has told people that she is particularly carful about not using her words to tear down me or her family. Chris says she knows that those are the relationships she cherishes the most so they are the ones that she most wants to protect. She is so wise in this. The Bible lets us know that, when it comes to those close to us, we tend to take the relationship for granted and, therefore, we don't always speak with great care about the impact of our words. We destroy those relationships often through grumbling.
Impatience takes root in our hearts and comes out through our mouths through attacking people. It's finding fault with people. Knitpicking. We may say, "Big deal. Why would God care about that? Why sweat such small stuff?" God says, "It's not small stuff." "Why?" you may ask. Because grumbling is the seed of something that is toxic. It destroys the peace, the shalom, that Jesus died to bring about. Impatience shouts out that we don't trust God enough to wait for him. It destroys us from the inside out. It takes over our hearts and turns us into angry and vindictive people. And it comes out through our mouths and destroys those around us, including our families and our church.
No one has seen this more clearly than CS Lewis. His classic book, The Great Divorce is all about this topic. It's a fictitious story of a man who is given the chance to leave hell and visit heaven, along with a bus load of other residents of hell, to see whether it really is all they imagined. In heaven, each of the visitors from hell encounters someone from their pasts who pleads with them to stay in heaven, which, in Lewis' fiction, is still open to them. But, each encounter eventually brings the people to the issue that kept them out of heaven in the first place and which, in God's eyes, hasn't changed. What could possibly cause a person to refuse heaven and head back to hell? With incredible insight, Lewis writes about the reasons all of them refuse heaven. It's not because heaven is not infinitely better than hell. It is! The reason is because the visitors have become so self-obsessed and hateful of a God who might require something of them that they would rather spend eternity in hell with only their self-justification for comfort.
Near the end, as the visitor continues to look around heaven with his fellow passengers having returned to the bus, he begins to realize that for all of us there is a choice to be faced while we are still alive. Do we choose to love God and to serve our neighbors or do we instead choose to focus on ourselves. The self-centered life comes out through worrying that others are getting more attention, or credit, or don't notice us... whatever it might be. These two very different directions, living for self or living for God and others, change who we are. Given a long enough time span, the choices we make to live for self or for God will turn us into two very different characters. When we choose to go the way of self-centeredness, that way of life shapes us into who we are. It becomes more and more impossible for us to turn back to God.
The visitor is especially struck by a woman whose only problem seems to be that she complains too much. He asks his guide, a man named George MacDonald, why this is such a big deal. Why would this keep the woman from heaven? MacDonald drives home the same point made by James: That her grumbling is evidence of a woman who is obsessed with self and who has no love for God or for others:
"Hell begins with a grumbling mood, always complaining, always blaming others... but you are still distinct from it. You may even criticize it in yourself and wish you could stop. But there comes a day when you can no longer. Then there will be no 'you' left to criticize the mood or even enjoy it, but just the grumble itself, going on forever like a machine. It is not a question of God 'sending us' to hell. In each of us there is something growing, which will BE Hell unless it is nipped in the bud."
According to the Bible, what some may think is a small thing, the impatience that leads us to complain, is not a small thing at all. It is not the way God made you to live. God's call upon you is a call to trust him. To learn to wait on him. In a word, it's a call to a beautiful thing: contentment, contentment with who you are and what you have. Contentment that is not based upon circumstances but upon trust in God.
#2. What does a life of patient faith look like?
See how the farmer waits... Take the prophets who spoke in the name of the Lord... You have heard of Job's perseverance (5:7,10,11).
Teacher 1: The Farmer: We don't have many farmers here at LAC, but I'm sure we can understand what James was getting at. In 1st C Israel, the farmer planted his crop in the dry season and then had to wait for the autumn rains. The farmer was faithful to do what he had to do in farming – tilling the soil, planting the crop, getting rid of weeds.... But others things were outside his control. So, the farmer had to learn to wait for God to do his work. As he waited, he faced countless obstacles. He had a role to play with some of them, like getting rid of weeds. He had to be faithful in the things God had entrusted to him. But, with things like rain, he had to wait for God. Worrying. Becoming anxious or irritated. Those things didn't help. He had to learn to wait for God's timing. James says, "That's what a life of faith is like."
Teacher 2: The Prophets: Prophets are important because they make it clear that the kind of patience that James is talking about is not the same as just sitting back and saying or doing nothing; just supporting the status quo. Read about Amos or Elijah in the OT and you'll see they thundered against the evils of their day. They were persecuted because they were not content simply to be passively good. They actively stood up and spoke for what was right in the world. That's what a prophet was one who, according to James, spoke in the name of the Lord.
James says that we who are now followers of Jesus are to stand in that same tradition, to stand and speak the values of our Lord in the name of our Lord. To refuse to be a complainer is not the same as being non vocal. So the call to patience in the midst of difficulty isn't to be confused with simply leaving things the way they are. The prophets were strong and radical in their calls to turn to God – in their calls for change. Prophets obeyed God and spoke out. James calls us to do the same. Refusing to grumble does not mean that we shut our mouths. Let's learn that from the prophets.
Teacher 3: Job: Job is just as important to consider as the prophets. He's important because Job's life makes it clear that the kind of patience that Jesus and James call for is not the same as Stoic indifference. Remember that Job didn't try to deny his emotions. He was in agony and he was honest about it. He confessed his pain and his doubts to his friends and to God. What he endured was tough, tough for him. And, he was open about it. I know that it's sometimes difficult for us to discern the difference between sharing our burdens with God and with friends on one side and complaining on the other. But Job was not consumed by impatience or by grumbling. He endured. That's the point the Bible is teaching here.
To use James' word, he persevered. That Greek word has the idea of the kind of fortitude or inner strength that struggles on through difficulties because it knows God is there and has a purpose for what is happening. It's one that has faith that on the other side of the difficulties there is something to be gained. Patient perseverance is not indifferent to problems. No, because faith in God enables us to see a purpose in whatever happens. Because of that, the person of faith does not give up. He waits on God.
And that's what James pointed out to his congregation. Do you see it? He went on to say, "You have seen what the Lord finally brought about" in v.11. Even in the worst of situations, God was doing something. God had an overarching goal in this whole business of Job's sufferings. Job kept going and God's goal happened in God's time. At the end, Job discovered that, even though he had a hard time seeing it in the midst of pain, God is full of compassion and mercy. At the end, James knew that truth in a whole new way. He knew it precisely because he had been through the trials, and pain, and loss, and unjust statements of others – and had seen the glory of God on the other side.
I'm convinced God does not mind us asking "why". He doesn't want us to bottle up our sufferings, our doubt, or our questions, any more than Job did. Any more than Jesus did! Jesus asked, My God, my God, why? It was a part of the honest agony of the cross. But Jesus went to the cross because he knew God was doing a great work through that cross.
What God does expect is that we will persevere because we believe there is an answer to the question why. We will keep living and speaking as Christ has taught us to because we believe it even if we don't know what that answer is. He wants us to persevere, to remain in the faith, to live for Him, because we know there is a goal that is in perfect harmony with God's perfect character of love and compassion. And because we know that, we are able to be content and patient and godly – without grumbling -- even when we are going through the worst of times. But, how do we go from where we are now to a life of patience?
#3. How do we Grow out of Impatience and into Trust?
1) Do a heart and mouth check – Identifying the problem and calling it what it is – that's always an important part of our healing and re-making. Do you see seeds of impatience in your heart? Are they coming out through your speech already thorough complaining? If you're not sure, ask your family and friends. But, you have to be humble and ready to receive their input! As James pointed out, those closeset to us are often the ones most affected by our impatience.
2) Pray specifically and fervently about this area of your life – Impatience is so deceptive that you will need God's help. And he will help you! Pray that God will replace your impatience with faith. Pray that, as King David put it, God will set a watch over your lips. Pray that God will enable the grumbling to stop and the praise and gratitude to flow forth.
3) Pause while you pray – and consider a much longer view than the world in general can – Christians can wait in ways that others cannot. Why? Because we know how God brings victory out of pain – like he did through Jesus' cross. We know that God is good. And we know that Jesus is going to return and make all things right. James wrote: Be patient until the Lord's coming. Most people can't wait. They feel they have less than 100 years at most and that they have to experience heaven on earth somehow before it's over. So people want all they can get now.
But a Christian can be patient. When we believe in Jesus, we know that there is something in the future that we won't be allowed to miss. It's the Lord's coming. V 7: "Until Jesus returns." V.8: "The Lord's coming is near." That point puts a different complexion on everything in this world, doesn't it? I mean, if we really believe Jesus is returning to make everything right, it makes my grumblings look rather ridiculous.
"He is coming!" says James. Jesus will make sure justice is done if a colleague or employer has mistreated you. He'll deal with unethical wealthy people you envy. He will heal your pains. He will take away your anxiety. Be patient and don't complain because Jesus is returning.
The last question that James faces you with in this text is, "Do you believe Jesus will return – or do you not?" If you do believe Jesus will return, it will make an enormous difference in how you plan your time (4:13-17) and how you use money (5:1-6) and how you learn to be patient (5:7-11). Let me say it clearly: We don't have to be ashamed of believing there is a heaven. We have an empty tomb on our side saying there is life beyond this life. We have the testimony of Scripture on our side. When we trust God's Word, we can afford to be patient ... until the Lord's coming.
So, examine your ways! Don't minimize the "small things" like patience and grumbling. Christians know that each moment of life matters and that each decision we make affects who we are. A billion years from now, you will still exist. Small things are not small things. They are making you what you will be. Remember Jesus' words: He who is faithful in little will also be faithful in much. So, be patient and do not grumble – until the coming of the Lord. Be patient and do not grumble. The Lord's return is near.
To His glory,
Dr. Greg Waybright
Senior Pastor
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審視自己:小事情或許是大問題
5/25/2014
雅各書5:7-11
這個星期聖經經文的主題,我以前在雅各書這個系列裡曾經提到幾次,就是雅各牧師為什麼常常把很多人認為的小事情當做大問題。為什麼他反復講一些事——比如聽和說、窮人和富人要同等對待、接受不同意見、你做每個決定的時候要記得神?在這個星期的經文,雅各牧師談到忍耐和不埋怨。他甚至說, 將來我們見神的時候,神會在這些事情上審判我們。我們當中很多人也許會找藉口說:“神太大了,祂不會關心這些小事。神真正關心的是兇殺、暴力和虐待這些事。”我想雅各會回答說:“神確實關心那些事,並且會審判他們。但是,他也不會輕看我們以為小的事情。” 雅各書無處不在的教訓是,我們生命中重要的屬靈時刻,不總是人們認為很重要的時刻。讓我來提醒你如何跟隨耶穌來看這個世界:我們相信,從現在開始10億年以後,我們還存在。雅各教導我們,這些事最終會決定你到底是個什麼樣的人,就是在10億年後你這個人,是你每天、每時每刻所做的細小的選擇來決定的。因此,根據雅各書,一個重要的事情就是,我們每天做決定時,是否耐心等待神。這將我們帶到雅各書5:7-11。 雅各說,神是超越所有法官的法官,祂站在我們面前,準備審判我們不能忍耐的心和抱怨的嘴。你可能會說:“不可能!那麼大的神為什麼會關心這些事情?”但是,我希望雅各牧師的話,可以幫助你明白為什麼這些事對主來說很重要。 這就是我今天要講的。雅各書5:7-11常常被認為是雅各書中不太重要的教導。而從某方面講,我發現它是雅各書中最重要的段落之一。在5:7-11中,雅各告訴我們為什麼真信心最切實的標誌是耐心等待神的能力,這種耐心可以通過我們的講話方式表現出來。
#1. 神警告我們什麼樣的“小事”?
弟兄姐妹們,要耐心等候主來……不要抱怨(5:7a, 9a)。 我這個星期問了你們很多人:“你是否曾經禱告讓神幫助你更有耐心?”有幾個人很快回答:“我一直在學!”這種反應表明我們知道,獲得忍耐的力量需要經過試煉。我曾經在雅各書1:2-4的講章中談到過這個問題。正因為如此,在為耐心禱告時,也要為試煉祈求。可我們當中沒幾個人想要試煉!在第一章中,雅各清楚地指出,試煉生忍耐,會讓我們更強壯。現在,在第五章裡,他提出一個相關的但稍有不同的觀點。他說忍耐會讓我們形成一種生活方式,這種生活方式對我們的靈魂和世界有好的影響。或者,更準確地講——雅各說,不能忍耐,會導致一種毀滅性的、痛苦的生活方式——不僅是我們自己,也包括我們周圍的人。 這些經文的中心是對忍耐的呼喚。雅各在這5節經文中,用了幾個詞來形容忍耐,這些詞的翻譯方式很多:“穩定”、“忍耐”、“堅忍”、“堅持的心”、“不屈不撓”……因此,讓我來說明一下:忍耐對神來說非常重要。當你忍耐的時候,表明你相信神在這裡,祂在工作——即使祂做的事情你不明白。忍耐是最確切的證據,表明你真的對神有信心。另一方面,缺乏耐心就表明你不相信神。 這來自於很多方面:你可能不相信神的計畫,想要取而代之。或者,你可能不相信神的時間表,想讓事情發生的快一點!要點在於,當你知道急躁在你裡面增長時,你就可以確定,你在走上一條遠離神的道路。你靠信心與神同行。但是,當你不相信神,你通過你的急躁察覺到這一點——就是你不想等了。 現在- 你怎麼知道從幾何時缺乏忍耐已經成為一個屬靈的問題?雅各說,當你看見不能忍耐從你的口中以抱怨的形式發出的時候,就可以發覺缺乏信心沒有忍耐開始像癌症一樣吞噬你的靈魂。整本聖經告訴我們,我們的嘴巴具有潛力成為神救恩的管道,透過耶穌基督帶給人鼓勵和醫治的關係。但是,嘴巴也能像個污水管一樣攜帶著我們靈魂裡的垃圾到世界上, 一事無成,敗壞有餘。一個"我的生命為己而活"的最明顯標誌之一就是一張抱怨的嘴巴和滿腹的牢騷。 我不認為聖經這裡講的“牢騷”指我們誠實地講述我們經歷的試煉。在一個誠實的關係中,這是很重要的一部分。當我們與人分享我們受到的試煉,我們就可以互相幫助。我們可以為具體的事彼此代禱。我們可以為彼此擔當重擔。誠實的分享對一個婚姻,家庭以及教會都是很重要的一個部分。 雅各指的是我們都有的經歷- 事實上,我可以想像我們都參與其中的,也就是一種滴漏不斷抱怨的靈。這種靈持續不斷地尋求可憐-而不是禱告。抱怨者總是想讓你知道他有多忙,他的家人有多糟糕,教會的歌有多麼的討厭...我可以舉無數的例子。我確信你已經知道雅各指的是什麼。 並且,在第9節有一個句子,雅各針對我們生命中特別危險的一種牢騷。當不耐煩得以長驅直入我們的話語中,我們常常對著自己身邊最親近的人發出最猛烈的抨擊。雅各寫道,“弟兄們,你們不要彼此抱怨。”我的妻子Chris在不要抱怨的方面教了我許多。她告訴人說,她特別的小心,不用她的話來拆毀我和她的家人。 Chris 說,她知道這些是她最珍愛的關係,所以她格外用心來維護他們。在這點上她是相當的明智。聖經讓我們知道,當涉及到那些最親近我們的人,我們慣常對我們的關係不以為然,因此,常常沒有格外留意我們話語的影響。我們時常用牢騷來毀壞了這些關係。 缺乏忍耐在我們心中紮根,又從我們的嘴中出來攻擊人。找人的不對。我們可以說,"找人的茬有什麼大不了的事?神還在意這些事?有必要在這麼小的事上如此費勁嗎?"神說,"這不是小事一樁。”為什麼? “你可能會問。因為抱怨是有毒的種子。它破壞了耶穌的死所帶來的和平與平安。 缺乏忍耐喊出我們對神的不信任去等候祂。 從裡到外來毀滅我們。它佔據了我們的心,把我們變成一個憤怒報復的人。它從我們嘴裡出來,毀壞我們周圍的人,包括我們的家庭和教會。 沒有人比CS劉易斯在這點上看得更清楚的。他的經典著作"夢幻巴士(原名"天淵之別")"講的都是這一主題。這是一個虛構的故事,講的是一個人得到一個機會離開地獄去天堂看看,同行的一輛巴士滿載地獄裡其他的居民。在天堂,每一個從地獄來的人得以遇見過去的一個人,曾經不斷說服請求他們在天堂裡留下來,天堂在路易斯的故事中仍然向人開放。但是,每一個相遇最終把人帶到一個問題,這個問題是從一開始就阻擋他們進入天堂的,並且在神的眼裡從來都沒有改變過。是什麼可能的原因導致一個人拒絕天堂,又重新一頭扎到地獄裡去?路易斯以不可思議的洞察力寫道這些拒絕天堂的原因。並非天堂不是一個比地獄好的無比的地方。那是真的!原因是來訪者已經自我迷戀到這個地步,恨惡神可能會要求他們什麼,他們寧可選擇永遠在地獄裡生活,以自我稱義聊以自慰。 最後,來訪者和同行的乘客已經回到巴士上,再次環顧天堂,他開始意識到我們所有的人在活著的時候都要面對一個選擇。我們是要選擇愛神,服事鄰舍,還是選擇自我專注。自我中心的生活來自怕別人得到更多的關注,或歸功與別人,或不得人的注意....不管是什麼。這是兩種迴然不同的方向,為己而活,還是為神為人而活改變我們這個人的價值。在我們一生生涯中,我們選擇為己還是為神而活把我們轉向不同的品格。當我們選擇走向自我中心的道路,這樣的生活道路塑造我們成為今天的這個人,使得我們越來越難回轉向神。 來訪者特別為一婦人而吃驚不解,這婦人的問題看來是滿腹的牢騷。他問導遊,一個名叫喬治麥克唐納的人說,這有什麼大不了嗎。為什麼抱怨使得這婦人進不了天堂?麥克唐納和雅各一樣一桿見底地說:婦人的牢騷證明她是個沈迷自我的人,對神和他人沒有愛": “地獄始於牢騷的情緒,總是抱怨,總是責備他人......但你還和抱怨有所分別,你甚至在內心也批評自己,希望能夠打住。但是有一天,你收不住了。那時候你就剩下一個空殻,已經搞不清情緒也不享受抱怨了。就祇是為抱怨而抱怨,像一台機器一樣沒有休止。這問題不是神要把我們往"地獄"裡送,而是我們每一個人裡面有東西在滋長,如果不在萌芽的時候掐死它,就會像地獄一般。" 根據聖經,那些在我們有些人看來的小事,煩躁不能忍耐導致抱怨根本不是小事一樁。這不是神造你生活的方式。神呼召你是叫你信靠祂。學習等候祂。總之,神呼召你的是件美麗的事: 知足,對你自己是誰,你所擁有的存知足的心。知足不是建立在你的環境上,乃是建立在對神的信靠上。
#2 一個有忍耐和信心的生命會是怎樣的呢?
看哪,農夫忍耐等候……那先前奉主名說話的眾先知……你們聽見過約伯的忍耐(雅各書5:7, 10, 11)
第一位教師:農夫:我們這個教會沒有很多農夫,但是我確定我們可以理解雅各想要表達的意思。在第一世紀的以色列,農夫在乾旱的季節種下莊稼,然後必須等待秋雨。農夫很衷心地完成他在種植時需要做的事情—耕種土地,種植莊稼,除去雜草……但是其他的事情就不在他的控制範圍內了。所以農夫必須學習等候神來作工。在他等待的時候,他遇到無數的障礙。他的角色需要他處理部分障礙,比如除去雜草。他在神委託給他的事務中必須衷心。但是,像下雨這樣的事情,他必須等候神。總是擔心,焦慮甚或生氣,這些情緒並沒有什麼用。他必須學習等候神的時間。雅各說,“這就是信心生活的樣式。”
第二位教師:先知:先知們是很重要的,因為他們清楚地表明雅各所說的忍耐並不是坐在那裡說話或者什麼也不做;或只是支持現狀。請閱讀舊約中的阿摩司或以利亞,你會發現他們都嚴厲斥責當時的邪惡現象。他們之所以受逼迫,是因為他們不滿足於僅僅是被動的做一個好人。他們積極地站出來為世界上正義的事情說話。這就是一位先知所做的—就像雅各說的,奉主的名說話。 雅各說我們這些跟隨耶穌的人也要站在同一個方向,要站出來奉主的名傳揚神的準則。拒絕做一個抱怨者與保持沉默不是同一件事情。同樣,神呼召我們在困境中忍耐與簡單地讓事情保持原狀不可混淆在一起。先知們規勸人們轉向神的呼召是強烈而徹底的—在他們規勸人們改變的呼召中。先知們順服神並說出來。雅各呼召我們做同樣的事情。拒絕抱怨並不意味著我們閉上嘴巴。讓我們向先知們學習。
第三位教師:約伯:約伯和眾先知們一樣重要,值得我們思考。他之所以重要是因為約伯的生命清楚地表明,耶穌和雅各所說的忍耐不同於斯多葛學派的冷漠。請記住,約伯沒有試圖否認他的情緒。他處境痛苦,對此他也很坦誠。他向朋友們和神承認了他的痛苦和懷疑。約伯並沒有否認他的苦難或試圖無視疼痛。他所忍受的對他來說非常非常艱難。而他對此很坦白。我知道,一邊是和神和朋友分享我們的重擔,另一邊是抱怨,有時候我們很難分辨這兩者之間的區別。但約伯並沒有沉浸在不耐煩和抱怨之中。他忍耐著。這就是聖經在這裡教導的重點…… 用雅各的話來說,他忍耐了。這個希臘詞的意思是剛毅不屈或是內在力量,這是一種可以掙扎著走完困境的力量,因為它知道神就在那裡,對於正在發生的事情,祂有祂的目的。它深信在困難的另一端,我們將會有所收穫。忍耐堅持不等於對漠視問題。不是,因為在所發生的一切事上它都能看到一個目的。正因如此,這種人就不會放棄。他會等候神。 而這正是雅各向他的會眾們所指出的。你看到了嗎?在第11節中他接著說,“你也知道主給他的結局”。即使在最壞的境況裡,神也在做工。在約伯遭患難這整個事件當中,神有一個重要的目的,隨著約伯繼續前行,神的旨意在神的時間被成就。最後,約伯明白了,儘管曾經一度當他處在痛苦之中時很難看見,明顯主是滿心憐憫,大有慈悲。最後,雅各以一種全新的方式明白了這個真理。他準確地明白了這個真理是因為他經歷了試煉,痛苦,親人的逝去和他人不公正的評價。 我深信神不介意我們問“為什麼”。他不希望我們封存我們的苦難,我們的疑慮或是我們的問題超出約伯所做的。或是超出耶穌所做的!耶穌問,我的神,我的神,為什麼?這是十字架實實在在的苦難之一。但耶穌走向了十字架,因為他知道神正藉著那十字架在成就一件偉大的事。 神的確期望我們忍耐下去,因為我們相信這個為什麼背後有一個答案。並且我們要繼續按照基督教導我們的樣式去生活和說話,因為我們相信--儘管我們不知道這個答案是什麼。祂要我們忍耐,持守信心,為祂而活,因為我們知道這裡有一個目的,這個目的與神慈愛憐憫的完美品格有著完美的和諧。而且正因為我們知道,我們就能做到滿足,耐心和敬虔--不發怨言--即便是我們正經歷著最壞的時刻。但是,我們如何才能從現在的光景進入到忍耐的生活中去呢?
# 3 。我們如何才能從不耐煩成長為信任? 1 )查驗心和嘴巴–找出問題並實事求是--這一直是自我醫治和重建的一個重要組成部分。你看到你心中不耐煩的種子了嗎?它們是否已經藉著抱怨從你的言語中發出來了呢?如果你不確定,請去問你的家人和朋友。但是,你必須要做好虛心接受他們意見的準備!正如雅各指出的,那些我們最親近的人往往最易受到我們不耐煩情緒的影響。 2 )為你生活的這個方面具體地熱切地禱告—不耐煩相當具有欺騙性以至於你需要神的幫助。祂會幫你!祈求神用信心來取代你的不耐煩。像大衛王所祈求的那樣,求神為你的嘴唇設一個看守。求神讓抱怨停止,讓讚美和感激湧流出來。 3)在禱告時停一停—用比世界上的一般人更長遠的眼光來思考-- 基督徒可以用他人無法做到的方式來等待。為什麼?因為我們知道神如何能在痛苦中德勝,就像祂藉著耶穌的十字架所做的那樣。我們知道神是良善的。並且我們知道,耶穌將要再來,修正一切。雅各寫道:你們要忍耐,直到主來。大多數人都等不及。他們覺得他們只有最多不到100年的時間,所以他們一定要在生命結束之前在地上經歷天堂。所以人們想要得到他們現在所能得到的一切。 但基督徒可以耐心等待。當我們相信耶穌時我們就知道,在將來,有些東西是不容我們錯過的。那就是主的再來。 V 7 :“直到主再來。 ” V.8 : “主來的日子近了。 ”這一點使世界上的一切都變換了顏色,不是嗎?我的意思是,如果我們真的相信耶穌即將再來,修正一切,那我的抱怨就會看起來十分荒謬。 “祂要來了!”雅各說。假如你的同事或者老闆苦待了你,耶穌會確保正義得到伸張。祂會對付你所嫉妒的那些不道德的有錢人。他會醫治你的疼痛。他會拿走你的焦慮。要忍耐,不要抱怨,因為耶穌要再來。 本文中雅各要你面對的最後一個問題是, “你相信耶穌會再來--還是你根本不信?”如果你真的相信耶穌會再來,那麼在如何規劃你的時間( 4:13 -17 )如何使用金錢( 5:1-6 ),以及如何學習忍耐( 5:7 -11)上你會發生巨大的改變。讓我說得清楚一些:我們沒有必要為相信有天堂而感到羞恥。我們有一個空墓穴來說明生命不只有這一輩子。我們還有經文作見證。當我們相信神的話語,我們就能做到忍耐……直到主再來。 因此,查驗你的生活方式!不要輕視一些“小事”比如忍耐和抱怨。基督徒知道,生活中的每一刻都至關重要,我們的每一個決定都會影響到我們的身份。從現在起十億年之後,你依然存在。小事並不小。它們決定著你將來成為什麼。記住耶穌的話:人在最小的事上忠心,在大事上也忠心。因此,要耐心,不要抱怨--直到主來。
荣耀归于神,
格雷格博士
主任牧师
Greg Waybright • Copyright 2014, Lake Avenue Church
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The Small Things Are Really Big Things - Week 10 - Study Guide
The Small things are really big things
James 5:7-11
- In 5:6, James indicates that righteous people were being condemned and murdered. How hard do you think 5:7a would be in that context? How difficult is it to be patient in tough times? (Review 1:2–4 as you discuss this.)
- In 5:7b–8, James compares the life of walking by faith with the Lord to farming. In what way does a farmer's life apply to a Christian's need for patience? Does this apply to anything you are facing now?
- In 5:9, James addresses how impatience in our inner beings flows out and into our speech. See 3:2–12. What does he say? What advice would you give a person who complains a lot, based on James' teaching?
- Read 5:10–11a followed by Hebrews 11:32–38. What do we learn about a life of faith in God from the prophets? Do you find this encouraging or discouraging?
- Compare what James says about Job in 5:11b with 1:12. What would James say to those in our church who are going through trials?
- Picture yourself talking to new believers about James 5:7–11. What would you tell them it says about following Jesus? Do this in no more that two sentences.
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